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daisy, 22, they/aer

a number of things wrong w my brain

dni: terf, swerf, anti-blm, th!nspo, I block freely. I’m a stone femme bisexual so if ur mad abt that feel free to go away about it.

personal tag is snail.txt

ask to tag anything :) I am currently tagging all basic triggers, and also covid related news and clowns.

snail.txt

whatagrump:

Did you get an allowance as a child?

Yes, I got a regular scheduled allowance no matter what

Yes, I got a regular scheduled allowance if I did household chores

Sort of. It wasn’t regular, because my guardians weren’t that organized

Sort of. It wasn’t regular, because money was tight

My guardians just gave me money when I asked

No, any money I had was earned through a job (not chores)

No, and I had no money of my own.

Other

I’m talking about childhood here, not adolescence. This isn’t about getting a job in high school, it’s about what was in your piggy bank when you were ten.

(via hybrid0wl)

i got bday money and over the summer my grandpa would give me a lot of quarters for “waitressing” ie bringing him his meals i saved them up in a jar i still have that says “tortoise fund” i desperately wanted to buy a tortoise

homunculus-argument:

homunculus-argument:

Anyone else have that thing where you get stressed out when someone else is in a bad mood because now it’s your responsibility to make them feel better, but if you’re in a bad mood and someone tries to cheer you up you get stressed out because now it’s your responsibility to pretend that it’s helping to make them feel better.

Oh so this is probably a trauma thing too. Bitches have one terrible childhood and then make it their whole personality. I’m bitches.

(via houseplantbutch)

mamoru:

mamoru:

even if you care deeply about some specific kind of suffering you do not have to fill your life with as many upsetting stories of that type of suffering as possible. that is just signing up to have a bad time.

does you absorbing this information help you benefit a cause? and even if you are benefitting a cause, are you doing something productive with more of these stories or are they just making you feel bad? are you taking more effective action or just getting overwhelmed with sadness? is surrounding yourself with stuff that upsets you helping you more than it hurts you?

(via seraphim-soulmate)


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